The Boudoir

Women and their shoes: the story of a desire never satisfied

Our shoes say a great deal about us. Symbols of female power for Freud, the ultimate instrument of seduction for some fetishists, they are said to reveal how we move through life. From flat trainers to 12 cm stilettos, here is what our feet are choosing.

What do shoes say about us, according to Freud?

Plenty of us collect shoes. They finish an outfit and carry a mood, and sometimes they decide what the rest of the wardrobe will do. For Freud, in Trois essais sur la théorie sexuelle, the foot stands as a “substitute for the woman’s phallus”: by giving our shoes so much weight, we would be raising that symbol of power. A reading to hold at arm’s length, but one worth knowing.

More concretely, two criteria guide the choice: comfort, and looks, which feed our vanity and show off our power to charm.

Why choose comfortable shoes?

Flat or orthopaedic, these shoes answer a need to move fast and freely — and a refusal of the “instruments of torture” a beautiful pair sometimes hides. The fit (the arch that suits the foot best) often decides the model.

Why choose shoes for their looks?

A 9 cm court shoe in a meeting room sets the tone at once: a woman nobody is going to look down on — an image Carrie Bradshaw made famous in Sex and the City, where the stiletto became a sign of self-command. Among millennials the current runs the other way: less patience with discomfort, and a growing appetite for menswear-inspired shoes cut for women.

Frequently asked questions

What is the foot said to stand for, according to Freud?
A “substitute for the woman’s phallus”, in Trois essais sur la théorie sexuelle — a symbolic reading, to be held at the distance it deserves.
Why are high heels associated with self-command?
An image popularised by characters such as Carrie Bradshaw, who turned them into a sign of female assurance in the 2000s.
Why are menswear-inspired shoes gaining ground?
Younger generations are said to put comfort first, dropping the painful models for more masculine cuts adapted to women’s fashion.
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