The Boudoir

Sexy, with style: the tricks anyone can borrow

Sex appeal starts with attitude. Still, a few well-chosen pieces can sharpen it in a matter of minutes. Here are seven fashion and beauty tricks anyone can borrow, from the right shoes to make-up that lands.

A good pair of heels

Heels are not always the wise choice. Yet a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that heel height tracks directly and proportionally with how attractive men perceive a woman to be. One more reason to buy the shoes.

A little black dress

Who would argue with Karl Lagerfeld? He was the one who called it “the basis of the basis”.

Bare shoulders

Contrary to received wisdom, researchers have found that men are strongly drawn to women’s shoulders and arms, not only to their chest.

Something red

The colour of passion and love, red catches the male eye like nothing else.

Body-skimming clothes

Own your curves. Another study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior shows that men’s eyes settle more readily on women whose fitted clothes make their shape plain than on women who hide it — no need to copy any particular look.

A bold lipstick

Red already, so twice as effective, lipstick has virtues of its own: researchers observed that waitresses who wore it drew more attention from male customers, and a Boston University study shows that women wearing moderate make-up come across as more attractive, more competent and more trustworthy.

Sunglasses

Essential on a bright day, sunglasses add glamour and a hint of mystery — provided you pick the right frame.

Frequently asked questions

Does heel height really change how attractive a woman is perceived to be?
According to a study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, yes: heel height tracks directly and proportionally with the attractiveness men perceive.
Does lipstick genuinely change how others see you?
Studies suggest it does: waitresses who wear it draw more attention, and moderate make-up strengthens perceptions of competence and reliability, according to a Boston University study.
Do you have to wear body-skimming clothes to be noticed?
Not at all, though one study shows that clothes revealing the figure catch the eye more than clothes that hide it — every woman remains free to choose her own style.
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